{"id":1269,"date":"2024-03-04T23:24:18","date_gmt":"2024-03-04T23:24:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/healinganddealing.net\/?page_id=1269"},"modified":"2024-03-04T23:48:50","modified_gmt":"2024-03-04T23:48:50","slug":"table-of-contents","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/healinganddealing.net\/?page_id=1269","title":{"rendered":"Table of Contents"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Preface <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Introduction <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>PART I: THE PHYSICAL BODY<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 1: Tips For Long-Term Body Health <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A Great Mixed Drink <br>Cooling Off Injuries <br>Breathe, Breathe In The Air <br>Oxygen <br>Breaking Down A Deep Breath <br>Diet<br>Stretching <br>Exercise, Movement and Inner Listening <br>Body Sovereignty <br>Sleep Support <br>Immune System Support <br>Western Medicine vs. Self-Care <br>Ode To My Body <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 2: Bodywork <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Logistics Of Booking A Massage <br>S l o w i n g Down <br>Suggestions for Receiving Massage <br>Emotional or Sexual Responses During Massage <br>Massage Aftercare <br>Rotating Bodyworkers <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 3: Habit Your Way <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Habits Versus Addictions <br>What Does Body Want Now? <br><br><em><strong>Chapter 4: Fasting Down <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>fffffFast <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 5: Balancing Bodies and Computers <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Other Office Detriments to Body <br>For The Men <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 6: Body Meditations <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Somatics <br>Continuum Movement <br>Dreamwalking <br>What Is The Physical Body? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>PART II: THE EMOTIONAL BODY <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 7: Emotional Expression and Denial <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Expression Is the Key <br>Among Our Earliest Messages: Shut Up <br>Expression, Then Understanding <br>Suggestions for Safe Expression, Alone or With Others <br>Tips for Getting To Ignition <br>Letting Go Versus Expression <br>Emotional Projection <br>From Misunderstanding to Responsibility <br>Many Roads <br>Men Need To Heal and Deal <br>Emotions Can Grow Up Too <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 8: Sound and Safety <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Importance of Safe Release Space <br>\u201cFree\u201d Will? <br>Earth Changes and Emotional Expression <br><br><em><strong>Chapter 9: The Backlog of Emotional Charge <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eliminate The Kneejerk Reaction? <br>Thar Be Treasure Below! <br>How I Broke The Ice, And What Happened Next <br>from A to U <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 10: Whose Emotions Are These Anyway? <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Practical Assumption: If I Feel It, It Is Mine <br>Fear of Rage <br>True Rage Release <br>Verbal Versus Primal <br>Cycling <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 11: Fear of Fear Itself <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Universal Judgment on Fear <br>Fear \u201cor\u201d Love <br>Handling Fear in a New Way <br>Fear -&gt; Love -&gt; Trust <br>The Faces of Fear <br>Ways to Release Fear <br>Taking Action Can Be Acting Out <br>Judgments on Expression <br>\u201cAnd It Has Come To Pass&#8230;&#8230;\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 12: The Downside of (Held) Anger <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Individuals\u2019 Collective Rage Projected On the World Stage <br>Releasing Anger Safely and Effectively <br>Feared Repercussions <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 13: Proactive Vs. Reactive Healing <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A \u201cSafe\u201d Trigger: Allowing Fantasy To Trigger Proactively <br>Reactive or \u201cUnsafe\u201d Triggers <br>What is the Payoff? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 14: Recognizing and Releasing Guilt <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Recognizing Guilt&#8217;s Voice <br>Awareness of Guilt Leads to Healing and Dealing <br>Guilt\u2019s Other Face: Blame <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 15: Emotions and Functionality <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Judgments on Free Expression of Emotions <br>Not Everyone Releases At Once <br>Releasing In The Midst of a Busy Day <br>Walking The Fog <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>PART III: THE MENTAL BODY<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 16: Proactive Thinking and The Great God of Logic<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Mental Body\u2019s Disconnected State <br>Getting Physical Helps The Mental <br>Getting Emotional Helps The Mental <br>Heart As the Balance Point <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 17: Judgment Release <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Right Rather Than Happy <br>Verbal Judgment Release <br>Internal Judgment Release <br>Judgment \u201cNests\u201d <br>Truth vs. FLATs <br>The Inverted Pyramid <br>Judgments Vs. Affirmations <br>Acceptance <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 18: Heal The Past to Change The Future <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When The Moment For Decision Comes, The Choice Will Be Obvious. <br>The Past As Part of the Present <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 19: Asses Out of You and Me <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hidden Fear Driving Assumptions <br>Death is Inevitable (And Other Judgments) <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 20: Honestly! <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Hiding-Spilling Continuum <br>Truth Begets Trust <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 21: Extreme Self-Love <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>PART IV: THE SPIRITUAL BODY<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 22: The Embodied Spirit <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Resistance To Embodiment Within Spirit <br>A Body In Pain\u2019s Need For Spirit <br>Meditation on Your Pain <br>Medication <br>Do Not \u201cGo\u201d To Heaven \u2013 Bring It Here! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 23: Not So Hasty <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fear of Death <br>Options for Slowing Down <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 24: The Three Mo&#8217;s <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Groups vs. DIY <br>The Positive Feedback Loop <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 25: Desiring Spirit and Cultivating Faith <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Desire Matters <br>Expressing Emotions Magnetizes Spirit <br>Dare To Burn <br>Prayer and Desire <br>Desire Cards <br>Desire and Faith <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 26: Personal Empowerment <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Power Flower <br>Consensus Judgments <br>Chakras, Karmic Bonds &amp; Cording <br>Releasing Karmic Cords <br>The Dark Before Dawn <br>True Love Power <br>Our Lost Spiritual Powers <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>PART V: THE RELATIONAL BODY &#8211; LOVE, FAMILY, FRIENDS &amp; OTHERS<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 27: Relationships <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Gap <br>A Key: Seeking My Responsibility <br>Letting Go <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 28: Interactive Process <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI Need To Spew\u201d <br>Virtual Process <br>Acceptance, A Key to Safe Expression <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 29: Reflections and Personal Responsibility <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No Accidents: Our ElectroMagnetic Nature <br>Human Magnets <br>The Parts We Left Behind <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 30: Competition &#8211; A Dog Eat God World <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Judgments Driving Competition <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 31: Strong Emotions Around Children <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Children Learn 24\/7 <br>Mechanics of Expressing Around Kids <br>Allowing Children To Feel Afraid <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 32: Children Expressing Emotions <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Emotional Sponges <br>Our Feelings, Their Feelings <br>Children Expressing In Public <br>True Versus Artificial Peace <br>Worse Before It&#8217;s Better <br>The Family Lightning Rod <br>Bestowing The Blessing of Free Expressing <br>Encouraging Children\u2019s Emotional Understanding <br>Layers of Seriously Repressed Emotion Surfacing <br>Emotional Piggybacking <br>Parental Choices for Handling Their Child\u2019s Emotionality <br>Timeouts for Parents <br>Releasing Beliefs About Parental Emotional Responses <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 33: Sacrifice and Selfishness <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Judgments on Putting The Self First <br>The Cycle of Giving and Receiving <br>A Free Society? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 34: The Family Contract <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hallmarks of The Family Contract <br>Family Contract Roles <br>Free Will And Obligation <br>Family Types <br>Free Will Within Families <br>The Rebel Disowned <br>Psychic Effects of the Contract <br>Voiding The Contract <br>The Global Family Contract: Government As Executor <br>The Universal Family Contract <br>The Healed Family <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 35: The Art of Loving Touch <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Touch or Violence <br>Non-Sexual Touch, for Self and Other<br>Safe Touch for Young Children <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 36: Sexual Wounding <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Two Patterns of Wounding <br>Staying Present and Moving Slowly <br>Sex for Pleasure and Healing <br>Sex with a Survivor <br>The Various Forms of \u2018No\u2019 <br>Mutual Responsibility <br>Undoing Rape Culture <br>Resisting and Receiving Female Outrage <br>Stand <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 37: You Can\u2019t Always Get What You Want <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Releasing the Attachment to Outcome <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Chapter 38: The Fulfillment Path <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Working to Change <br>Getting the Help We Need <br>The Coffin Zone <br>Visions for Our New Life <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Conclusion: Changing the World <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How To Make A Difference <br>The Impact of Personal Healing <br>Accepting The Journey <br>Welcome To The Revolution <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Acknowledgements <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Related Reading <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>About The Author <\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Preface Introduction PART I: THE PHYSICAL BODY Chapter 1: Tips For Long-Term Body Health A Great Mixed Drink Cooling Off Injuries Breathe, Breathe In The Air Oxygen Breaking Down A Deep Breath DietStretching Exercise, Movement and Inner Listening Body Sovereignty Sleep Support Immune System Support Western Medicine vs. Self-Care Ode To My Body Chapter 2:&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-1269","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"aioseo_notices":[],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":false,"thumbnail":false,"medium":false,"medium_large":false,"large":false,"1536x1536":false,"2048x2048":false,"post-thumbnail":false,"minimalistblogger-grid":false,"minimalistblogger-slider":false,"minimalistblogger-small":false},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"Peter","author_link":"https:\/\/healinganddealing.net\/?author=2"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Preface Introduction PART I: THE PHYSICAL BODY Chapter 1: Tips For Long-Term Body Health A Great Mixed Drink Cooling Off Injuries Breathe, Breathe In The Air Oxygen Breaking Down A Deep Breath DietStretching Exercise, Movement and Inner Listening Body Sovereignty Sleep Support Immune System Support Western Medicine vs. Self-Care Ode To My Body Chapter 2:...","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/healinganddealing.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1269","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/healinganddealing.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/healinganddealing.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/healinganddealing.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/healinganddealing.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1269"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/healinganddealing.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1269\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1277,"href":"https:\/\/healinganddealing.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1269\/revisions\/1277"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/healinganddealing.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1269"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}